The easiest job done is daydreaming. Wished. In the daydream, we could be anything and do anything. We can imagine a Gatotkaca, superhero of the muscular Indraprasta wire, steel reinforced (perhaps because of diligent drinking high calcium milk) and then mess up the White House and hang Bush Jr.. at the end of the Statue of Liberty. Let nyahok (read: know), that was paid to hurt fellow Muslims.

In the supposition, we could reverse the past. Make everything right what gone wrong. Maybe we will obey every command our mother and father, will not hurt them. We will also be diligent in doing homework so it will not taxable or subject to punishment jewer homeroom. Or we would not want to acquaintance with video games, so do not be addicted to 'heroin' electronics. Make the girls who had impregnated her boyfriends might be wishing will not do the act cursed him and took effect (suer, being pregnant does sag in the future no one aside). Oh, We Wish We Can do that!

But it presupposes something that has happened is the futility. Not even commendable. The past has happened, no one can change it. Wishing him only prolong the suffering can even be traumatic. That is why the Prophet. ask us not to suppose. He said peace be upon him. "If something has happen so do not you ever say, 'if I do this or that then the result is (definitely) this'. But say: 'Allah has decree that, and what He wills and He did'. "

The only thing we can do now is save the memories of bitterness in our memory folder. He is a lesson that must not recur in the future. Are not mules will not fall into the same hole twice? And, since man is not a donkey - even more stupid than a donkey -, learning from mistakes is important. Muhammad the Prophet says, "The signs of misery there are four: first, is to forget the sins of the past when God still remember it ..."

So, let your tears melt the remembrance of it all. That's better, rather than wishing to repeat the past. If that's what we do, then it is a contemplation. Reflect and think and seek enlightenment on various problems we are.

And contemplation is a commendable act. Allah Most High. had ordered the man to a lot of contemplation. Among other things to think about His power, by affirming his faith.

"Verily in the creation of the heavens and the earth, rotation of day and night, there are signs of God for the people of understanding, namely the remembrance of Allah in a state of standing, sitting and lying down and think about the creation of the heavens and the earth, then said, 'God Duhai You created all of us not in vain, Glory be to You, and save us from the fires of hell '. "(Ali Imraan: 190-191)...